Now that I am in a long term relationship, I just enjoy the eye candy of younger guys.
(Only there is no Uber where I live, so I shuttled some back to safety out of courtesy.) Anyone who wants to share my bed at least needs to be able to afford the Uber ride home. Some guys were looking for a sugar daddy and I made it clear from the start that I was not the one for them. There was never romance imagined, but some friendships did develop. When I did I enjoyed attention from the younger guys. I no longer have Grindr on my phone and it has been years since I entered a gay bar.
Personality is at least as important as physical attraction for me. Many guys my age cannot even stand erect without medication or regular chiropractic. There are men my age who I find physically attractive, but they are a shriveling percentage. The world of love belongs to the other ones.Īs I slide deeper into the older category I certainly appreciate younger guys - at least physically. The love I could have come up with, it's unfit and unusable. I never wanted to be that old pervert who likes younger men, so I rather would take counsellig and strong meds, to choke off the forbidden feelings and thoughts. I feel much ashamed of it, if I still find someone attractive. After I turned older and older I felt myself ridiculous and wrong with them likes. It's very rare I find someone this attractive. Well, but getting to know him closer, I eventually got to know his GF, who he's planning to found a family with. We're walking on a thin blue line, he once said. We are congruent in a lot of interests, our views and sports hobbies, too. An awesome young fella, and I could learn a lot from him. He's ever cool, Sports guy, does a lot of training, very smart person and to my taste, so to say, very good looking, fit ant trained. I know them from my beach surf spot place, acquaintance wise. The guy I'm very fond of now, he's like 27. They are mostly level-headed "Alpha leaders" of their team, their bunch, their unit. I need to be falling for someone, their whole personality, what they do and what they like. I like an equal standing to level-headed a person. I'm not a "Daddy" person at all, so this idea turns me off, and a lot of those that look for older guys either seem to like such roleplay or just look for sexual purpose. It would have been necessary to fall in love to someone that would fall in love to me. If it comes to sexual business, I can't share anything. Younger people often seek experience - if it comes to love and romance, I don't have any. I kind of envy them at first thought, but I guess if I had deeper insight into how they make theirs work, certain things would be important, that I can not give or share. On occasion, like in forums like GF, one can read about such couples. I never met any of them, so I thought it's just a story on wishful dreaming. People always keep tellig me there would be plenty of such young dudes that are into older folks. I was looking about for some time, at parship places and answered/wrote ads.
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I learned how to avoid attachment better. Yet taking self-discipline to a new level made it go away after 11 years. The first time it was kind of tough, as the forbidden feelings had grown over my head.
So I just could respect their choices of a girl to get married to, having to kill off forbidden feelings. When I was a teen, they were older, and after I turned like 30 they were the younger ones.Īlthough I never met amnyone who wanted just romance or thought of ltr as a possibility, as they turned out to be heterosexuals every time again. I always grew fond of guys from a certain age range.